It doesn't really matter what you meant to do. In fact, it never will. More importantly, the people who are affected by your actions only care about how they were affected. It's time to settle that concept.
You're an entrepreneur. You've got ideas that might change the world. Sometimes they keep you up at night. Sometimes you can't do them alone. You've got to tell someone about them, but whom? Who can you trust enough to share the idea with and know they won't take it and run with it as their own. You've heard the stories of men making millions on a stolen idea, leaving their former friend to poverty. Not you! You'll keep it to yourself. You'll make them sign the NDA. Or, if you're smart, you'll get over the paranoia.